He just went from one short term relationship to another.In this case, I’d generally recommend you to move on from this short term relationship. Do you think if you and your ex got back together, you two will be able build a relationship with strong foundation? Did he decide to just leave because he was not satisfied or he discussed his problems with you?Ghosting is a dating phenomenon in this day in age, and no one wants to be ghosted, but hey, it happens.Ghosting is the action of literally taking no action in ending a relationship. Text him to make sure everything’s still cool between you two.“When someone tells you who they are, believe them.” ~Maya Angelou After having been a rebound girl the summer of 2013, I swore I would never get involved with another emotionally unavailable man who had baggage and was a poor communicator.I thought I was a pro at all of the tell tale signs. He came on very strong in the beginning, telling me he deleted his dating app after our first date, that he turned down other dates because he didn’t want to waste time with other girls, and showed me in more ways than one that I was his priority. Things were at the height of our relationship, and I use this word loosely because it really wasn’t a relationship.
And if you want your ex boyfriend back even though he is already seeing another girl, you need to start looking at things from a new perspective.
When your crush is single, it seems like there are all sorts of possibilities, and once that relationship status changes on Facebook…
well, it can feel like the door just got slammed in your face. It’s not like you were dating and now he’s with someone new, but there’s no denying you have some serious feelings for this person.
We hadn’t even made it official and he was talking about breaking up. When I saw him on a dating site six weeks after the split (after him telling me earlier that he didn’t want to see other people; he just wasn’t ready for a relationship), I panicked.
He told me he didn’t want to lose me, nor did he want his baggage to ruin what we had. This lasted for all of about twenty-four hours when he ended it. I confronted him about it and he took no accountability for ending things the way he did.