In the name of research, Gaijin Pot got together three different women (UK, USA and Italy) to share their experiences of dating in Japan. Chiara: I thought that they didn’t find me attractive so I wasn’t really interested in Japanese guys, even though I was attracted to them.Rebecca: I wasn’t so attracted to Japanese men but now after living here for three years I would say I definitely am. Christa: I’ve always been attracted to Japanese men, even when I was young, so I did some research before I came here and I saw that generally they are interested but they’re very shy about approaching women so you may need to approach them.These "beautiful women" were regular company employees (some of whom were not women at all) running a catfish scam colloquially called sakura, collecting the subscription fees as long as they could.While lots of legit apps are on the market now, in 2015 eight executives of several popular Japanese dating websites have been arrested on similar allegations, as reported by The Daily Mail.Tinder recently took a look through its data for 2016 and compiled a list of the women’s names that received the most right swipes over the course of the year. As with all the names on this list, Aoi can be written a number of ways, but among the most common are those meaning “hollyhock” (葵) or the color “blue” (碧). Misato One of many names on the list which frequently contains the kanji 美, meaning “beautiful,” Misato can mean “beautiful knowledge” (美知) or “beautiful village” (美里). Mayu Most versions of Mayu include the character 真, or “truth,” such as those which stand for “sole truth” (真唯) or “true evening” (真夕). Kanako The kanji 奈, which has connections to the concept of divinity as well as apples, regularly shows up in the name Kanako, which can roughly be taken to mean “child of great blessings” (加奈子).An exception, though, is the rendering 奏子, “child of music.” Incidentally, this is also the only name on the list to end in -ko, a once popular choice for girls’ names that’s now acquired a bit of a stigma as old-fashioned. Erika While kanji do have inherent meanings, some Japanese names come about more because they sound nice than because of an attempt to actually impart a deep significance to them, such as when Erika is written 恵梨香 (“scent of blessed pears” ) or 絵里香 (“scent of picturesque village”). Rina The 奈 we mentioned for Misato also appears in many versions of Rina, such as 里奈 (“blessed village”) and 梨奈 (“blessed pear”). Mizuki Although the Japanese word for “moon” is usually pronounced , its initial consonant blend gets softened in the name Mizuki, which can mean “beautiful moon” (美月) or “water moon” (水月). Moe The most common writing of Moe, 萌, means to “sprout,” lending the name a youthfully innocent air. Ayaka Ayaka has a number of potential meanings with an elegant feel to them, such as 彩花 (“colorful flowers”) and 綾香 (“woven fragrances “). Miyu Finally, 美, which we also saw used to write Misato and Mizuki, is frequently part of the nam Miyu, which can mean “beautiful kindness” (美優).
The trend has been coined “Kousai zero Nichikon”: roughly translated as “marrying without dating”.
And Japan is slowly falling in line with this trend, so don't be left behind. There seems to be a certain stigma towards dating apps here in Japan.
Read on to discover the hottest apps on the Japanese market! American magazine Fast Company claims that if asked, almost no one will confess using them.
In other cultures, group dating is becoming more popular as a safe alternative to single dating (especially blind dating), also helping to ease tension, because both parties will feel more comfortable having the company of their friends.
is a group blind date, typically used to form at least some friendships between two groups that are each of a single sex.