I am trying not to let things move too fast physically or emotionally, but they both seem very interested and I just don’t know what to do.
Making a decision about a guy is no different than any other decision.
The good news is that both of them wrote me back and I have been seeing both for the past 2-3 weeks.
Things have been going well, and I give a lot of credit to what I have learned from your book, emails and this site.
A) You'll probably feel like crap about it, and B) you'll might have trouble keeping track of everything. 1 asks what you did on Saturday and you spent it with Guy No. You'll know when you need to make a decisionone guy or both will want to up the frequency of your dates, or you'll start getting stressed by the whole thing.
2, just say you hung out with a friend and change the subject. When that happens, sit down and think about who makes you feel the most secure in their feelings for you, and who seems to be on the same page as you.
Choosing a Guy After You Decide Community Q&A Though some may think that liking two guys instead of one is twice the fun, it actually just means that your heart is torn in two and won't feel whole until you make a decision.
The problem is that I really like both of them and they both seem to be really amazing guys.They follow up, they text, we talk, make plans…it’s all good. On the other hand, I don’t know how to manage this.I know I need to make a decision before things go too far (becoming too physical), but how do I know when?As long as you respect the feelings of the people you see and are truly looking for qualities that will lead to long-term love, it’s okay not to go steady with someone as of the first date.Here are some of the many advantages to going on dates with different people while making a decision about who is the best candidate for commitment.To do it right, you need to be fair to the guys you’re dating and to yourself.